Wednesday, December 25, 2013


For those of you didn't receive the "annual letter" by mail and are interested in reading it:

Loved ones ~

            2013 has been a fairly predictable year for our family.  I almost didn’t write this letter, but I so enjoy reading yours that here goes…

            We’re finding that Colorado weather, while generally pleasant, is punctuated with extremes.  Winter came late this year, but the heavy snows that fell in April and May ended the concerns about drought!  More rain fell this summer than in our entire first year in Colorado, freeing us from sprinkler-switching every now and then.  In September extensive rains resulted in destructive floods in our area. 

The week of the flooding our cat, Twinkle, died while I was chauffeuring him to the vet.  (I know, I know!  I still roll my eyes about it, too.)  Our finch, Atticus, still thrives and sings – waay too much and waay too loudly – and the six red hens in the backyard just started laying and enjoying hanging out by the patio door and pooping on the step, much to Eli’s delight.

The day that Twink died I promised the kids that we’d visit the humane society and get another cat as soon as school dismisses next summer.  Shortly thereafter we became aware that, the Lord willing, Baby number six will be joining us in May.  (I’m hoping the kids forget what I said about a cat.) 

            Our children continue to shoot up and branch out.  When she’s not talking, singing, or piano-playing, Leah, 9, usually has her nose in book.  She even attempts walking this way, though not with much success.  She grows more mature and responsible each day, and is generally sweet to classmates, siblings, and parents alike, even when we are least deserving.

            Will’s 1st grade teacher requires her students to read 10 minutes a day.  I’m thankful for this, because there are times when I really need him to sit and be still for a bit, and the reading requirement comes in handy.  I use practicing his piano lessons to same end.  As an added bonus he’s becoming a fine reader and a budding pianist.  The other day he checked out all the George and Martha books from the public library and read them aloud as we ran errands.  Egads!  I laughed so hard I had tears running down my face.

            Now that Marie is five, she’s intent on attesting to her own maturity.  “Now that I’m five, Mom, I don’t stick my fingers in the butter to snitch big globs anymore!  I mean, I don’t even like butter anymore!”  Her princess fascination has morphed into a fairy fascination.  How or why, I’m not sure.  Regardless, she still insists on wearing a skirt – usually the same skirt – every day.  She writes her name well, cuts and colors beautifully, and eagerly anticipates starting school next August.

            Lately the youngest three and I have been singing Psalter #360 (Psalm 128) as part of our lunch devotions.  We end with verse three, “Olive plants in strength and beauty, full of hope and promise sweet.”   Without fail, Nathan turns to me at the end and says, “Eli it tweet.”  And I reply, “He is sweet, and so are you.”  And Nate insists, “No, I’m GWEAT!”  And he is great.  He’s got the greatest smile, the greatest inflections in his delightful voice, and the shrillest, grate-est wail you’ve ever heard when he’s upset.

            Dental hygienist Aunties Erin and Sherry would be proud to witness Eli’s unrelenting fascination with oral hygiene.  After supper, while we’re loading the dishwasher, he shuffles stiff-legged to the bathroom (which door is usually left open in spite of the present rule: THIS DOOR MUST BE SHUT AT ALL TIMES!) and samples the toothbrushes of every member of the family, one after another (much to B.J.’s chagrin).  If the toothbrushes are not in their usual spot, the toilet paper or toilet bowl (which lid is usually left open in spite of the present rule: THIS LID MUST BE SHUT AT ALL TIMES!) suffice as sources of amusement.
           
            B.J. continues to throw himself at his work with his whole heart.  This year his classes include U.S. history, biology, life science, algebra II, physical science, and physics.  He also helps keep the school’s technology ticking and is in the garage building new upper cabinets for our kitchen as I write.  Woo-hoo!

            The first weeks of this pregnancy were difficult for me.  I work hard manning this ship, and the very thought of taking on another mate – plus the nausea, fatigue, and financial concerns that another little one entails – almost did me in.  But I have my husband, who sagely reminds me that our sinking or sailing depends on One far greater than me, and ladies’ Bible study and church choir, both highlights in my week, to encourage me.  “The mighty One has done great things for me – Holy is His name.  And when I think of how He blesses me, it moves my heart to say, “Praise the Lord!”
           

            We plan to remain here for the holidays, which means we will miss many of you whom we dearly love.  You will be in our thoughts and prayers, in the memories we share, and in our hope for Heaven, where there will be no more death, sorrow, or pain.  The Place where righteousness will dwell.  The Place made possible because the Word became flesh and dwelt among us.  Praise Him!

Monday, December 23, 2013

This is the monkey...

This is the monkey that Aunt Amy sent.


And this is the mom with a camera near
Who follows a boy that she holds dear –
A little boy with a button nose
Who tows his “fuzzy” wherever he goes.


The fuzzy that’s been all over the map –
A must for the boy when it’s time for his nap,
Along with his paci and monkey George, too,
And then you will find that he’s coming for you!


Coming to you for a big snuggle tight
‘Cause he knows that it’s time to go “nighty-night.”


This busy boy with the button nose
Who drags that ol’ fuzzy wherever he goes…


This sweet lil’ boy – to bed he now went –
Who loves the stuffed monkey that Aunt Amy sent.

Wednesday, December 18, 2013

Delivered


                When I discovered that I was pregnant with our sixth child a couple of months ago, I spent two days in tears.  My husband knew that I was exhausted, nauseous, and overly-emotional, but he was still somewhat baffled by my response. 

                “You’re a great mom,” he encouraged me, “and you’ve always handled being pregnant pretty well, not to mention labor and delivery.  God’s always provided for us.  He will this time, too.”

                “But I just don’t feel ready to go through this all again,” I wailed.  “I’m already unable to keep up with everything I have to do, and now there are pregnancy aches and pains on top of it!  And I don’t care if I’ve gone through labor and delivery five times before – the thought of going through it again still scares me!”

                Now that I’m through the first trimester, those emotions have waned somewhat.  Yet I think that any woman who’s borne a child can relate to what I was feeling.  Some of those thoughts are driven by sinful selfishness and discontent, no doubt.  But some of those emotions are driven by fear, for a woman sacrifices much when she carries and brings a child into the world.

                When I was young, I was perplexed by the word “deliver” as it is used in reference to a baby being born.  Who, I wondered, was the one delivered?  Was it the long-awaited newborn, just placed in the arms of his parents?  Or was it the mother, now relieved of the burden she had carried and free from labor pains?

                It is the mother, Christ’s mother, Mary, who is delivered in Luke 2:6: “And so it was, that while they were there, the days were accomplished that she should be delivered.”  Mary’s delivery was not only the bringing forth of her firstborn son: Jesus’ birth signaled that the days had been accomplished that she – and all of God’s people – would be delivered from their sins.  The long-expected Messiah had been delivered.

        The inspired writer of the book of Hebrews commentates on this miraculous delivery:

Forasmuch then as the children are partakers of flesh and blood, He also Himself likewise took part of the same; that through death He might destroy him that had the power of death, that is, the devil; and deliver them who through fear of death were all their lifetime subject to bondage.  For verily He took not on Him the nature of angels; but He took on Him the seed of Abraham. Wherefore in all things it behoved Him to be made like unto His brethren, that He might be a merciful and faithful high priest in things pertaining to God, to make reconciliation for the sins of the people.  (Hebrews 2:15-17).

                Jesus came to deliver us.  In his first public sermon Jesus declared: “The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because He hath anointed me to…preach deliverance to the captives” (Luke 4:18).  The verses above and additional Scripture passages teach that Jesus has delivered (and continues to deliver) us from:

-          The devil (see above)
-          Death (2 Cor. 1:9-10)
-          The fear of death (see above)
-          The judgment due us for our sins, i.e. the wrath to come (I Thes. 1:10)
-          The law, the law of sin, the body of this death (Rom. 7)
-          Temptations (2 Pet. 2:9)
               
Jesus also came to be delivered for us.  He was “delivered for our offences, and was raised again for our justification” (Rom. 4:25).  “What shall we then say to these things? If God be for us, who can be against us?  He that spared not His own Son, but delivered Him up for us all, how shall He not with Him also freely give us all things? (Rom. 8:31-32)

                What should be our response for this great deliverance?  A thankful walk.  Ezra puts it rhetorically in Ezra 9:13-14a: “And after all that is come upon us for our evil deeds, and for our great trespass, seeing that thou our God hast punished us less than our iniquities deserve, and hast given us such deliverance as this; should we again break thy commandments, and join in affinity with the people of these abominations?” Paul puts it positively in I Cor. 15: 57-58:  “But thanks be to God, which giveth us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.  Therefore, my beloved brethren, be ye stedfast, unmoveable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, forasmuch as ye know that your labour is not in vain in the Lord.”

                Praise God – we’ve been delivered! 

Friday, December 13, 2013

Monday, December 9, 2013

in which Eli eats his first powdered-sugar doughnut and enjoys every bite

(Excuse the double egg on his forehead.  Two face plants in two days...  Not unassisted face plants, of course - there are two rough-housing older brothers in the house.)











You thought so, too, huh?  He is getting SO BIG!  :-)

Thursday, December 5, 2013

Turkeys

There were 10 of them underfoot last weekend - 5 of the De Jong variety, and 5 of the Mowery.  We so thoroughly enjoyed each other's company that I almost entirely forgot about my camera.  

With their dads at the Greeley Freight Station Museum.

We're not going back to Iowa for Christmas this year.  Our kids are probably most disappointed that they're going to miss out on the annual gingerbread house decorating with their cousins.  So we made turkeys together while the cousins were here!

These turkeys were regular turkey-making fiends.  (Whose goofy kid is that in the center, anyway?)

Even the dolls had to say good-bye...of course they promised to write each other soon!


We're so thankful that you made the trip out here to join us for Thanksgiving, Paul and Erin!
What precious memories!
We love you!